Couples: Your First Time Swinging

In the many swing clubs in Paris, the names and styles may vary, but generally suggestive clothing is the ideal attire. We recommend wearing clothes that not only look good but also feel good to the touch. One must feel comfortable in their own skin and with their adornments so as to best express their natural movements with confidence. And finally, personal hygiene must be taken care of to the max. Avoid being overly perfumed, but do clean and exfoliate your body so you feel sensual and ready for action.

If you go by yourself but want to interact with a partner, you must know how to understand the signs, and be careful to respect the decision of your potential playmates. In many places, the best way to approach someone is by lightly touching a “neutral” body part such as the hand or shoulder. If the couple does nothing or returns the touch, you’re probably good to go.  If, on the other hand they indicate they are not interested kindly  or remove your hand with swift gesture, please leave the couple in question in peace- but don’t worry, there is no reason to take this type of rejection to hard.

The rules of engagement may vary according to the club where you are, because there are also clubs where verbal consent is the norm before initiating physical contact.  It is essential to know the rules of the place that we are visiting visit so as to experience these joys with ease. It’s good to go slowly on your first visit, and enjoy the experience but without looking too desperate or anxious.  Relax and don’t worry if it takes one or two visits to fully get into the swing of things.

Whether you plan to return with new friends or old after visiting a swing club, make sure to rent one of the many apartments in Paris to enjoy the best of the liberal lifestyles the city has to offer.

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